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Latwell Nyangu

Youth Interactive

Overly dependent students have difficulties.

Additionally, the wrong people with wrong motives are always there to do anything they want with you.

Love, my fellow students, ought to be unconditional, but it is unquestionably not love when a student receives something in exchange for a favour.

Nearly all students require assistance during their academic path.

Some people are self-sufficient, but most people depend on their parents and guardians, among other people.

For pupils who depend on those whose intentions are not sincere, it is the worst.

The wrong person makes you beg for attention, affection, love, and commitment. The right person gives you these things because they love you.

One of the common things in this era is the most vulnerable students, who choose to seek help from people with wrong motives.

For a lot of students, this is their awful reality.

I come in peace this week as usual, but I am not pleased with several students who would rather get assistance from bad people.

I have frequently witnessed students being assisted by someone with bad motives.

This is the sad reality among many students.

Many times, I have seen students, being offered some help by people with evil intentions.

God gave us all instincts that warn us of danger in whatever we do, yet some choose to disregard them.

A lot of students have made the mistake of favouring the wrong people.

I pray, fellow students that you never do anything you don’t want to do and that can make you unhappy, no matter what.

I continue to write what I see and, on occasion, what I hear.

I have been observing some trends over the past few weeks and discovered that some students are hanging around with the wrong individuals for the wrong reasons.

A student was stabbed by her lover following an incident, according to a story published in the tabloid newspaper H-Metro.

The student was admitted to a local hospital even though the case had multiple versions.

I am praying and hoping she is okay and recovering.

However, I was curious as to why she was living with her partner. Did her parents know? She should have been on the university campus, right?

You know, I had a lot of questions, but naturally, nobody could respond.

Relying on the wrong people can be costly, fellow students. Because they are relying on the wrong people, a large number of students are being exploited.

Because they are dependent on someone, overly dependent students typically have difficulty interacting with others.

If you rely on trustworthy individuals with genuine intentions, I won’t have any issues.

Overly reliant students frequently find it difficult to become self-reliant, which is essential for success in college and beyond.

Students may lose out on opportunities to develop their problem-solving skills if they rely too much on the wrong people for assistance.

When faced with circumstances where support is not easily accessible, this lack of independence might make it more difficult for them to overcome obstacles that come up during their academic career, which can increase their worry and stress levels.

From my observations, students who rely too much on external support may struggle with decision-making skills.

In most cases, they might hesitate to make choices without consulting someone else first, which can be detrimental in a college setting.

College requires independent thinking which is encouraged.

Most students who have this indecisiveness are affected by their academic performance as well as their personal lives, making it challenging for them to take initiative or pursue opportunities that require self-direction.

When students seek help from the wrong people, it can lead to a variety of negative outcomes.

The process of seeking assistance is often rooted in vulnerability and a desire for support. However, if the chosen individuals are not equipped to provide the necessary help or have their own issues, this can exacerbate problems rather than alleviate them.

When students depend on the wrong people for guidance or support, it can lead to several negative outcomes that affect their academic performance and personal development.

This dependency often stems from the inability to critically evaluate the situations since some students think looking for help from anywhere can solve their problems.

Most of the students are suffering due to these dependency syndromes.

Students, particularly those who may be feeling vulnerable or desperate, can become easy targets for emotional manipulators.

When students are in a state of desperation, they may overlook warning signs of manipulation and instead focus on the immediate relief or support that the manipulator appears to offer.

Desperation can lead students to seek out relationships or assistance that they might not otherwise consider.

Most of the manipulators present themselves as saviour figures, offering guidance while simultaneously exerting control over the student’s decisions and actions.

One of the core issues faced by overly dependent students is a lack of trust in themselves and they often find it difficult to make decisions or think critically without seeking validation from anyone.

Above all, an overly reliant student will always come across as desperate.

Desperate students can be thrown around, which makes them dangerous.

It is quite dangerous, fellow students, to seek assistance from the wrong individuals.

Due to the extreme need, we have observed that certain students are being trafficked to other nations in the majority of situations.

A face-to-face toast is necessary for some of the topics we cover here.

Someone was making fun of me for saying something I didn’t do.

As students, I wish we could share our experiences over a meal and applause.

Until we meet for a toast.

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